Feng Shui Guide for Love and Harmony in the Bedroom
Seven Love Killers – and How to Turn Them into Love Boosters
Tips on how to decorate your bedroom to maintain good energy in your relationship
1. Disorder, untidiness and clutter in the bedroom
Why it's a problem: Clutter creates stagnant energy, weighs down and worries the mind, and can reduce intimacy and a sense of security .
Here's how you fix it:
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Completely clean under the bed – let the energy (chi) flow freely.
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Every thing has its place, no unnecessary gadgets.
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Keep bedside tables tidy – no piles of bills, work materials or laundry.
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Limit furniture to the bare essentials to create a cozy and airy feel.
2. Symbols of loneliness
Why it's a problem : Solitary objects reinforce the feeling of single life instead of partnership.
Here's how you fix it:
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Decorate in pairs – two lamps, two pillows, two chairs, two rose quartz hearts, two amethyst clusters.
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Display art and interior design details that reflect love, harmony, and community.
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Avoid motifs or figures that depict lonely people, especially in romantic spaces.
3. Mirror facing the bed
Why it's a problem: In feng shui, mirrors reflecting the bed are said to bounce energy back, invite a "third party" and disrupt rest.
Here's how you fix it:
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Move mirrors so they don't reflect the bed directly.
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If that's not possible, cover the mirror at night with a decorative shawl or a folding screen.
4. Reminders of past relationships
Why it's a problem: Such objects tie your energy to the past and can hinder new, healthy energies.
Here's how you fix it:
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Remove photos, gifts, or mementos from previous partners.
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Replace with symbols that represent your current relationship or the love you want to invite.
5. Sharp or aggressive objects
Why it's a problem: Objects with sharp edges or aggressive symbolism create cutting and hostile energy (what's called "poison arrows").
Here's how you fix it:
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Replace hard and angular objects with rounded and softer shapes.
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Keep weapons, knives or thorny plants outside the bedroom.
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Invest in calming, harmonious art on the walls.
6. Dead plants or inanimate objects
Why it's a problem: Signals decay, stagnation, and low vitality – the opposite of vibrant love energy.
Here's how you fix it:
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Remove dried or wilted plants.
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Do you want greenery in your bedroom? Choose healthy, easy-care plants or high-quality, lifelike artificial plants.
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Keep the room fresh, vibrant and well-lit.
7. Lack of crystals that support love
Why it's a problem: Without crystals and symbols that actively give us love vibes and remind us of love and harmony, the energy becomes flat , impersonal, and feels lifeless .
Here's how you fix it:
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Rose Quartz – opens the heart, strengthens self-love and romance. Place in pairs in the southwest corner of the bedroom or on bedside tables.
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Rhodonite – calms emotions and helps with conflicts.
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Morganite – symbolizes tenderness and long-lasting love.
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Amethyst – brings peace and harmony, perfect for good sleep.
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Garnet – awakens passion and vitality.
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Rhodochrosite energizes romance
Always place the crystals in pairs, keep them clean and charge them in moonlight for extra energy.
💡💡 Extra tip: If you share a bed with a partner (or want to), make sure both sides are equally accessible – matching nightstands, balanced lighting, and no obstacles to getting in or out of bed. This signals equality and openness in the relationship.
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